Conditional Divorce

Question ID: 17821

Assalamualikum mufti saheb. I want to ask a question regarding conditional divorce. I have commited a sin before Nikah. I have done sexual intercourse with a girl named “girl X” And I have also been involved in physical relationships with some other girls except intercourse.

After some years I got married to a girl named “girl Y”. She asked me to swear upon a conditional divorce that i havent commited sexual intercourse with any other girl except “girl X” and “girl Y”(my wife).

I said “If I have commited sex with any other girl EXCEPT you and “girl X” then you are now divorced one time” my intention by saying the word sex was “sexual intercourse” that included penetration.

After uttering this condition, i was doubtful regarding the word “sex”. When I searched on the internet, I found out that sex is a very broad term and includes sexual talks, sexual behaviour (kissing, hugging etc), and includes sexual intercourse aswell. While my intention behind saying the word “sex” was only intercourse which includes penetration. I am afraid that by saying “sex”, it would include kissing, hugging and rubbing private parts without intercourse which I have done with one other girl named “girl Z”.

Now my question is that will my sentence of conditional divorce include intercourse only or all other behaviors i.e. hugging, kissing and rubbing private parts etc and will any divorce take place ?

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Asked on October 18, 2015 10:32 am
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It will include intercourse only.

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Answered on October 21, 2015 3:40 pm