Brother brainwashed and brainwashing

Question ID: 20444

I’m fed up
My older brother since he got married been brainwashed by his wife now he has forgotten everyone’s rights and is a slave to his own whims desires and egos as well as his wife’s he’s constantly picking on me I’m fed up he tries to brain wash my mum against me he’s already brainwashed all my other bro sis and now he tries it with my parents my mum is easy target and sometimes she becomes rude and funny with me she’s much better than before this been going on since 7 years it’s much improved I’m in my early 30s I have other priorities and focuses it used to really bother me before now much less but I don’t like the fact that he comes to our home and spews his crap I’m so tired of constantly defending myself is this what life’s all about really I just want to slap him senses he’s a right irritant what to do i ignore him and remain calm but he’s always got an issue with me even the way I breathe sit everything I’m feeeeed up
I need relief and dua and direction

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Asked on June 18, 2016 4:01 pm
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You should not retaliate.
You should avoid debating, discussing and confronting him.
When he begins his lectures, leave the room.
Then your mother will tell you what was he’s latest nonsense.
Explain to her what the truth of the matter is.
When someone is looking for a fight, avoid it.

We make duaa for all.

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Answered on June 20, 2016 1:10 pm