Absent minded in salaah;talking to girl one is interested in marrying

Question ID: 27668

As Salaamu Alaikum

Hope you are keeping well Mufti Saab.
I have two Questions

1) My problem is that I am very, very absent minded in Salaah. I almost can never remember how many rakaats I have read towards the end of the Salaah and I end up having to read Sajadh Sahw almost always and sometimes I cant remember if I read Sajdah Sahw and I read it again. Is this the correct way or is there some concession in the matter as this frustrates me sometimes.

2)If I go to see girl with the intention of marraige am I allowed to speak to her because I have heard some people saying that you are only allowed one glance.

Jazakallah Khair

Your Time will be Highly Appreciated.

Was Salaam

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Asked on January 19, 2009 12:00 am
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1) After making Wudhu before performing Salaat, sit down. Make some Zikr, Duaa for aid in performing the Salaat correctly. Do not let Shaitaan take advantage over you. Be firm. Be strong. Do not worry about doubts. Be certain. Be definite. Be sure. Then even if you wrong proceed.

2) Yes

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Answered on January 19, 2009 12:00 am