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SALAAMS MUFTI,

AS A YOUNG PERSON OF 16 I ENGAGED IN SEXUAL ACTIVITIES,I HAVE SINCE MARRIED A PERSON MY PARENTS CHOSE FOR ME AND AFTER 7 YEARS OF BEING MARRIED I AGAIN CONFIDED IN ANOTHER PERSON AND ALL THAT HAPPENED BETWEEN THIS PERSON WAS KISSING AND NO SEX WAS INVOLVED.I AM NOW MARRIED TO MY SPOUSE FOR OVER 25 YEARS I ASKED ALLAH FOR FORGIVENESS EVERYDAY AND MAKE TAUBAH EVERY DAY BECAUSE I NOW REALIZE THE WRONG I HAVE DONE,AND ALSO REALIZE THE HURT I HAVE CAUSED MY SPOUSE.I DECIDED TO TELL MY SPOUSE EVERYTHING 5 YEARS AGO AND MY SPOUSE WAS VERY VERY HURT AT THE BETRAYAL I CAUSED,MY SPOUSE HAS FORGIVEN ME AND I AM NOW THINKING OF GOING FOR HAJ,I ASK ALLAH TO FORGIVE ME EVERYDAY,I AM NOW VERY SCARED AS TO WHAT WILL HAPPEN TO ME IN THE KABAAR AND WOULD LIKE TO KNOW IF ALLAH FORGIVES ONES SINS WHILE LIVING.I HAVE TO LIVE WITH GUILT THAT MY SPOUSE HAS FORGIVEN ME AND MADE A LOVELY HOME WITH ME.

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Asked on April 19, 2009 12:00 am
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You are fortunate. Make sincere valid proper Taubah - never to do it again. Allaah is most forgiving. Most Merciful. He will forgive. Be positive and get on with life.
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Answered on April 19, 2009 12:00 am
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