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I’m 33 years old female. My parents and I have been trying to find a suitable match for me for many many years, but I hardly get any proposal. I appear very reasonable, very educated, etc etc. But my family & I cant figure out why I dont get any proposals. Its not like we are rejecting people. If once in years someone shows interest, they are not at all compatible to me. My mother has been reading wazeefas for many years for me. I recently quit my job and for last 3 months I’m reading so many things based on suggestions of spiritual people, like istaghfar, surah maryam, surah tagabun, surah waqia, surah baqara other wazeefas etc. and ofcourse namaz. No one understands why I am not getting any proposal. Whenever there is a decent match, obstacles comes up such as visa issue, or cast issue, or his parents against it etc etc. In summary, it just feels that marriage is not in my kismat. I really want to get married, since it is in our religion, it is a social requirement, and it stops a person from involving in inappropriate acts. I really want to have children and inshaAllah want to raise them according to Islam, and wanna be a nice wife. Is there anything you can read for me, or suggest me to read, based on which I can find out why I am not getting married? Is there very effective wazeefa or surah I can read? Please help me as I am really tired of trying to find someone who can marry me and running into people who are trying to take advantage of my situation. Please keep me in your prayers and do reply. May Allah bless you!

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Asked on August 15, 2010 12:00 am
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On site there is a book 'tried and tested methods for seeking a spouse'.
Read, choose any formula that appeals to you. Read that. Generally make Duaa. Never loose hope in the mercy of Allaah.
http://www.alislam.co.za/uploads/Tried%20And%20Tested%20Methods%20Of%20Getting%20Pious%20Matches.pdf
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Answered on August 15, 2010 12:00 am