Assalamualaikum,
I got married since 3 yrs and have a two yr. old daughter, I and my husband used to fight related to household matters, on Nov 2012 when situation went out of hand I left home with my daughter living at my father’s house, during this period he approached many time to take me back but I refused, at last on 4 August 2013 he came again on my refusal he went back and in anger and well as to scare me he sent me sms with the following words “now be ready for talaq,actually hamara talak ho chuka because i have already told you 3 times talaq”.the content was so, after that he was he was in anger and neither before he had uttered the word Talaq, so what about about the validity of talaq? Please reply soon. I have completed my iddat. It’s a matter of 3 lifes