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Assalam O Alaikum janab,

I married the girl against my family’s wish. I fullfilled all the demands of the girl and her parents. I even didn’t ask them to take care of my guests on the day of nikah. I managed all the arrangements for my guests with my own money. I didn’t ask anything in return from the girl. I even signed on a bond for the condition that I will get settled in the girls native place. I did all these things because I witnessed many of our Muslim sisters suffering for all these unwanted things in marriage.

But, a week after the nikah, My wife’s parents started calling me impotent. I also had confusion over it because I was not able to perform sex with my wife. And because of this my wife doesn’t want to stay with me anymore, and neither does she want the khula from me. She doesn’t even talk with my old and weak parents. She doesn’t respect me and my family. she doesn’t want to adjust to anything, because of all these things I only tried 3 times to have sex with my wife. I consulted many doctors, no doctor ever said that I am impotent. everyone said all this is happening due to the mental pressure of all these things happening in my married life.

There is alot more to share but I don’t know how to put it here, I am crying daily in my home. Now I am feeling like I got trapped. I want to divorce her, but I don’t know how to do it. because they have a bond paper with my signiture on it. I believed them because they are from sayed family. with love towards sayed family I did all these things. please help me. please help me. please let me know your contact number I want to talk to you 🙁

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Asked on June 16, 2014 1:21 pm
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Go to your nearest local Ulema Body or Care Line or Crisis Centre. Let them intervene. Let those people who signed your Nikaah Certificate intervene. At this stage, do not utter 'Talaaq/divorce'.
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Answered on June 16, 2014 1:21 pm