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asalamlumkum sir i want to know about a problem which has affected me and my life a lot, my husband is a converted muslim from Shiaism although mashahALLAH he has improved alot in iman but still he is not acquainted with all Sunni procedures he is a high blood pressure patient and at times he said that please do not make me angry i become mad in anger and do not know what to do,now the question is that one day on the phone during a fight i was telling him that as you during our days of engagement used to say meri taraf say azad ho now do not use such things as it causes separation but he was insisting that Islam is not that tough that in anger if i say so without intention we would be separated he said when i have to leave you i would use divorce word,we were still fighting that i asked him to let me talk to my mother in law who is still a shia and she said to me that no talaq never happens like this i was talking to her and in the background i heard my husband saying meri taraf say azad hai he was in anger and i think that as to repeat in anger he said this meri taraf say azad hai azad hai i asked my mother in-law you heard what he said she said no i heard nothing he is angry he is talking to himself i told her the words she said no i heard nothing like that i asked my husband he said i did not say any word to get you separated he said he was angry but he swore to Quran and ALLAh that he had not said azad words and he said he never had any intention of divorce if he had he had used divorce word then i cried and hanged then he called and said do you have Quran with translation and read iyat 227-230 and said tum bakwas karte ho in Quran its words of talaq for separation then he said you just fight for nothing i love you and i do not want to leave you then he gave the Quran to his aunty who read ahead and told him that in Quran it is allowed to marry 4 yateem girls he told me then i said even halala is also a solution in Quran he said in extreme anger that phir mein tumhein farigh karta hoin phir tum karlo halalay i asked what is your intention he said shut up you are my wife and i am angry i do not want to lose you i told him his words he said no i said to phir dafa hojao aur karo halalay and that too so that you shut up he swore upon Holy book that he never wants to leave me or divorce me he said he was angry but he knew that talaq word would separate us that’s why he didn’t use it,now please tell me my husband says he never said words of separation and even my saas says she had not heard it now what is my condition what about Talaq?thanks

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Asked on November 11, 2008 12:00 am
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If your hisband is clearly saying that he did not intend divorce in all cases, then there is in this case no Talaaq - divorce.
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Answered on November 11, 2008 12:00 am