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I have just convertted ti Islam, on my own will! Im 46 years old widow and have just married a 53 year old Mulim born married man, after I met him 9 months ago. We love each other very much and this was a desiccion he wanted to make, so we did. I have a big concern. He has not told his wife of 30 years of maariage, and is older than him, and not well. I have asked him please to at least tell her, even if its not a need to asked. Out of respect as a women. I also asked him what will happen now, when does he stay over my me, now that we are married? I can see this is stressing him because he says his wife is not as strong as me and will never allow him to marry again. I fnd that very sad, because now he has to tell her. Where do I stand with this? I ove this man and I know he loves me too, but I dont want to see him so worried. Is it wrong for me to suggest he divoce one of us, even if its me, only because I love him so much and cant bear to see the woory in his eyes. Can he divorce me if I ask him to even after only been married for 2 weeks? Im sad by this, but I want to do the right thing and be haapy and see him happy? I am a very educated women, financially stable, selfemployed, and we are now going into business together. How do I deal with this? I sometimes ask the question why he married me, for what real reason? Please help!

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Asked on November 16, 2012 11:58 am
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He is not doinf well by not informing his first wife. However do not ask for divorce, it is his problem. He will soon find a way out if he is pious. Address the matter with diplomacy and as long as you are happy in the justice which he supposed to be meeting out then stay put.
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Answered on November 16, 2012 11:58 am