Assalam o alaikum,
Respected Mufti Saheb, I want to ask about my mother. My mother and my grandmother lives in the same compound with there repective families i.e sons and there wives. My mother lives with her husband and two sons (un-married). But due to some misunderstanding or other reason there is a quarrel between my mother and my grandmother every 3 to 4 months and then there is no talking between them and then after some months it seems ok and then after a month or so again a fight for nothing. We tried to solve the issue by talking to them but to no avail. My mother saw her younger brother(a barailwi aqaid) went to the terrace at day time as he seldom climbs on the terrace. After a while my mother went to the terrace and beside the terrace there is a huge mango tree. She saw a taweez tied on a branch of it. Now she is worried. Should we pull out the taweez and throw it.
She wants her mother to come to her house, sit, eat and talk but she does not come and for nothing blames my mother and her family, throws tantrums etc. What should be done. Though after reading at your site about reading Manzil, I have told her to read manzil twice daily and let others do what they want to do nothing will happen and she is doing that and also blows on water and we drink. She also reads salah and we read surah bakrah in our house for 40 days three years ago. But still nothing is working. My job keeps on coming and going. My younger brother who works in a call centre also faces this problem of getting a job and after a year or so that job is lost for some reason or the other. What the hell is happening we can’t understand and we all are frustrated and dejected in life. Inspite of doing all these there is still no relief so automatically one feels that Naouzo-billah these are all futile and vain. The imaan gets low and hampered. Now what else should be done. Please help us get some way out and pray for us.