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Asalamu alaikum. I am an alima, and from pakistani background. I am firm in following the quran and sunnah alhamdulillah.the problem is my family who are bidatis,they believe nabi salalahu alaihi wasalam as hazir and nazir and whilst in pakistan mum took me to darbars where i didnt want to go but went as mum was getting angry, i saw people eating sand kissing and rubbing stones on themselves.when nobody was looking i took the stone and hid it. Problem also is that they tried me to get married to a bidati and i said no and did my best to explain the sunnah way my dad then said to me to go to hell and get lost where ever i wanted, he said alot of things and he was angry and red it seemed as though he would kill me. It is grieving me alot that im finding it dificult to live with them as i get coments and when bidat is done i cant stop it because i am on my own. I want to marry someone who follows islam strictly and is involved in helping the ummah who are in major need i feel as though my family is a big barrier for this, i know that ibrahim alaihi salaam preached to his dad he did not listen so ibrahim as left his dad.would it be allowed for me to go behind my family and get married? Then slowly build the relation again. Sorry for taking time.but i found it necesary to explain everything

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Asked on April 22, 2010 12:00 am
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Sounds confusing. How did they allow you in the first place to study in a non-bidati institute. Nevetheless, get your Ustaads to talk to your parents. Do not be hasty.
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Answered on April 22, 2010 12:00 am