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Aslkm Respected Mufti Saheb
Mufti Saheb’s advice will be greatly appreciated inshaALLAH.
My mother-inlaw has openly expressed her intense hate for me and her dissatisfaction with her son having married me. For the almost ten years that we’ve been married, I’ve always made my husband aware of the remarks and told him not to do anything about it. I would always handle the situation diplomatically and be the least, apologising even when I wasn’t at fault.
With the last incident however, I handed it over to him to handle and I’ve been quiet ever since – staying away from them and not answering their calls, etc. He has tirelessly tried to make his family see how nasty they’ve been with me, but they see nothing wrong with their actions and feel that I am 100% to blame and that I’ve broken their family. All his visits to his mom end up in a blow up and she’s accused me of using muti on him because he constantly defends me. His mom and sisters tend to visit aamils for any and all reasons and I’ve advised them against this. My husband and I have been affected by sihr since we first got married but we’ve reached a point where we see it as a means of making more a’mal and we have Surah Bakarah on the cd player throughout the night. Which brings me to my concerns Mufti Saheb.

There are times of peace, where we don’t hear from them for a while and all is peaceful in my home. The minute my mother-inlaw calls my husband or he visits her, I begin to feel extremely angry with him. He usually doesn’t even need to tell me that he’s been in touch with her. The minute he walks in the door I know he’s been to visit or received a call from her because I immediately feel so angry with him. I feel that I don’t want him around me, I don’t even want to talk to him. When he is close to me, I just want to hurt him. Alhamdulillah, I haven’t acted on my feelings by showing him my anger, but I just don’t want him around me.

Mufti Saheb, his mom is not a bad woman, however right now she is driven by her resentment for me which makes her do these nasty, malicious things. I’m not saying that she’s been to someone to harm me, but I just have this strong feeling that she’s been to an aamil to get me away from her son.
I try to read the manzil regularly, but I feel that perhaps I need taweez for protection. What do you advise Mufti Saheb?
Also, do you think that she’s doing something?
My husband says that she’s recently been to an aamil and she asked him to check up on all her kids. His finding was that there is alot of activity at our home, but I already knew this because I can feel when something is around.
JzkALLAHu khair Respected Mufti Saheb

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Asked on May 11, 2010 12:00 am
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Have Sabr, do not do anything rash or in haste.
Explain to your husband properly the situation.
Avoid suspicion and avoid contact.
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Answered on May 11, 2010 12:00 am