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salaam alaikum mufti sahab Im a girl who wants to marry a divorcee he has two kids one is living with him and one is with his wife.We both love each other and we wanted to marry.I have told him on one condition i wanted to marry him that after getting married we both should first perform haj then we’ll get physical.Now i dont know is it correct or not according to Islam.I just thought in my mind that he is already a father of two kids and im a virgin.He got upset with my idea and he is confused.Please suggest me what should i do whether i should be on my condition if it is correct Islamically or should i have to drop the idea of performing haj together after marriage then get physical.

Jazakumu Allah

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Asked on October 9, 2009 12:00 am
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Your conditions are un-Islaamic. You cannot put clauses like after Nikhah no physical contact and Hajj performance. You sound confused. Kindly reconsider whole matter by making 'Mashwara' with elder family members before making decision. Currently your relationship with this married man is absolutely Haraam.
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Answered on October 9, 2009 12:00 am