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As-salaam-whualaikum. May you be in the best of health. I was married before and I am divorced as my ex-in-laws had abused me and interfered in my marriage which in turn they pushed my ex-husband to issue a talaaq, with the help of allah a boy has come to see me and would like to propose. One of my parents are reluctant for me to get married as my brother was also married before and his wife asked for a divorce with no shariat reason behind it. My brother has married again but his second wife is giving him a huge problem and disrespecting him whenever he asked her to do things according to the shariat and she believes he is too holy for her, which in turn she is also asking for a talaaq. I do understand where one of my parents are coming from as they are scared to let me go into a wrong family again and I think that they also tired of people doing this to us.Is it true that allah puts test on those people that he loves and after this will come ease. I have read my istikaarah namaaz and it has come out positive. Is it not when you chose a partner you should first look at their deen, and I have seen it in this boy that would like to propose and in turn I do like this boy for that reason.

What is there to read to protect us,as we can see that people don’t want to see my brother & I happy in a marriage.

Please advise on the following what can I read to make my parents understand that I do like this boy and what procedures are there so that insha-allah my parents accept his proposal.

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Asked on August 26, 2008 12:00 am
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Follow the advice of your parents. If you feel otherwise then request your parents to consult others on a broader circle on the boy who has proposed. See our booklet ''Seeking a spouse"
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Answered on August 26, 2008 12:00 am