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Salaam Mufti,

I am having a problem trusting my husband. I do my best to be attractive for him, but he doesnt appreciate it. Lately he spends most of his time out with friends. He has a problem of erectile dysfunction so we hardly sleep together. The other night when he went out and came back he had a bath straight away. On his underwear I saw a dried white patch, which is obviously not urine. He is always eager for me to leave the house and when I return I see he went onto pornographic websites and his underwear is in the washing basket with a sticky substance (sperm). When I confront him he denies it. I have now decided to just ignore it and leave it in the hands of the almighty. However, it has become difficult as it bugs me and I feel like asking him about that night, but I know he will deny it. What do I do?
JazakAllah

Sister in Islam

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Asked on October 9, 2009 12:00 am
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The attitude for this time that you are adopting is correct. At this stage do not probe. However talk to him about the viewing of pornographic material. Encourage him to be very regular with Salaat with Jamaat.
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Answered on October 9, 2009 12:00 am