Assalaam u alaikum
Mufti, please assist with the following
a)masturbation i know is forbidden but what alternative is there if ones wife is not willing to satisfy onesself, is it not the lesser of to evils instead of paying for it or having relations with someone else. threatening my wife to find it elsewhere will only result in further problems. she is also not willing to relieve me in other ways by hand etc.
i know it is a forbidden act but i have a high desire and at this point it is the only alternative.
b) i also suffer from dripping urine, i need clarity in terms of if i qualify as a mazoor, it is not constant but sometimes i have to make my salaah over and over again as it leaks. i know one could also delay one salaat until the last minutes of the allowable time but what about jummah, soemtimes it leaks sometimes not, i have it covered in a tissue paper to prevent soiling the clothes.