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As-Salaam-U-Alaikum
Dear Mufti
My husband and i have been having problems from the begining of this year, he claims that I committed adultery and his proof to that is that one of his “so-called” friends had told him where by birth mark is, further he also claimed that our 2nd child (son) is not his child and i was conspiring to have him killed to claim from a “life policy” (which no proof was found), I later found out that he was abusing drugs (ecstasy and Dagga) he then convinced his parents that i had done all then and they approached the person that he was accusing me with and this person denied all the allegations. My husband then went into rehab and his councellors told me and his parents that he was having paranoid delusions, his parents then took him out of rehab before they could send him for a psyc evaluation. when he came out of rehab we seperated and got back together several times and he still continued with the accusations and once got violent and started pushing me around and choking me. Through out all this his mother also joined in calling me names and asking me for what am i holding on to her son as i’m mad and a bad women and started accusing me of doing black magic on her son and i wanted to make him mad. He then started working and after 2 months of work worked out of the job. His mother in all the time continued to go at me at me a degrade my looks and manners even so far as to to degrade me as the mother of my children. I then decided to seperate and go and live with my sister, I then found a job and started working and then his mother and him asked me to come back to him, and he said that i would have to read Sura Nur to prove that I was innocent (yet in previous months I had done every thing asked to prove my innocents like Taking my son for a pertinity test, going through a lie detector test, going to see moulanas and qari’s, going to a hypno therepy enduring his mother step father and father blaming and swearing me and all his constant accusation). Three weeks ago after the 2 month seperation he decided to give me my Talaq and had wriiten it on a page issuing all 3 talaqs and returning my mehr (no witnesses were called from my family) as he had taken it away from me when he had convinced himself that i had committed zina. To date the and his parents have found no proof to all the accusations and allegations.
Please advise me as to whether his actions toward me were right and what right did he have to treat me the way he was due to a false accusation and what right did his parents have to treat me they way they did.

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Asked on November 10, 2010 12:00 am
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If what you say is true then what he has done is completely against Shariaat.
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Answered on November 10, 2010 12:00 am