slmz. I was involved in zina before i got married. while i was involved in zina i noticed that i would ejaculate prematurely. this continued for sometime. I made taubah from zina many times. I then went to meet a girl for marriage, but i did not disclose that I ejaculate premature to her or to any one else.
We then got married and i still suffer from this problem. I then went to see a doctor and im undergoing treatment. i have explained the condition to my wife and alhamdulilah she is very understanding, although i still havent told her that i had this problem before marriage. She thinks i had no idea about this problem.
My conscience is bugging me, mufti saab should i tell her the whole truth?
and if i dont tell her will i be guilty of lying?
and am i an oppressor?