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AssalamuAlaikum Mufti Saheb. I live with my parents who are in their late 60s. My father is a heart patient, i can not move n my own because i am the only son and my 3 sisters told me before that my parents are my responsibility. My problem is that my wife and mother does not get along. To be honest Moulana my wife is not unmannered towards my parents. I have a son who is 1 and a half years old. I am not a rich man Moulana, but Shukr my parents and wife are seen to comfortably. Mufti Saheb, the maid cleaned my room the other day and she never cleaned properly, so my wife called her and shouted her, and stood until the made cleaned properly. Thereafter the maid was doing the dishes, but she doesn’t use dishwashing liquid, my wife told her before about it. So my wife shouted her, then only did she put soap. My mother came out the room and said this is her house, nobody will take over her house, its on her name. Then my mother said that she grew up with a father who provided for them. my mother said that because my wife grew up without a father due to divorce. My wife keeps passing remarks that my wife steals. Mufti Saheb, my mother cooks and feeds my son everyday, my wife because of the way she is treated told me she will stay here because she understands my financial situation, but she doesn’t want my mother cooking and feeding my son anymore. Will I get Gunah if I stop my mother feeding my son n cooking for him? My mother cooks door myself and my father, my wife wants me to eat only her food from now on, will I get Gunah? Mufti Saheb I explained to my mother and father that my wife does not even have a separate bathroom and toilet, but she agrees to stay because she understands I’m not rich. Mufti Saheb, I told my parents that its my wife’s right to have her own place, and Yet she stays here, its only right they appreciate her and treat her like a queen, was I wrong? My son only sleeps sometimes at 4.30am and so my wife wakes up at 12 or 1 pm with my son, I don’t think my mother likes that, is she right? I dont think my mother has a say in what time my wife wakes up or what she does, because my wife supposed to be living n her own, and yet she agrees to live with my parents. Please advise meMufti Saheb. Jazaakallah

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Asked on May 18, 2017 2:02 am
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You should have a mutual meeting and resolve the duties, roles and responsibilities without oppressing anyones rights.
Let your mother cook for herself and your father. Let your wife cook for you and son.
Decide who is going to clean which room and the role and payment of the maid.

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Answered on May 18, 2017 7:02 pm