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There was a proposal in November. However I know the guy as a friend since May. Our common purpose was to get married. We both read istikarah, mine was that there will be interference from women initially, I dont know from whose side though. He wants to live with his mum, there is no privacy in his house as it is small and I want some kind of privacy. But he doesnt want to budge and feels that everything must be done his way. We are now very unhappy and actually embarassed that he brought his parents to meet mine since it doesnt seem to be going anywhere. He wants to take things “slow” and formulate a “friendship” and I feel that this is incorrect. I dont know what to do and scared that I might not get another proposal since I am now 28. I feel he doesnt want to do anything that makes me happy. Should I read istikarah again and make a decision. I am quite depressed now.

Jazakallah khair

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Asked on January 10, 2009 12:00 am
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Better to terminate this relationship. See on site our translations 'Tried And Tested Methods Of Getting Pious Matches ' use any formula you lik. Do not worry Allaah will send a nice proposal.
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Answered on January 10, 2009 12:00 am