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salaams muftisaab.hope u are in the best of health.i would like to ask u a very intimate question.how often can a husband have sexual intercourse with his wife.i asked u before that when i start caressing her in bed she falls asleep leaving me disapointed.i spoke to her in occasions but to no avail.we have for ummrah last month.i have”nt had intercourse with her 35 days because she was in her menses when we left.when we got back she was clean.i tried making love to her but as always fell asleep.again very dissapointed and upset.she told me her body needs rest.is it right to tell her that she can have all the time to rest her body and that she come to me when her urge to have intercourse comes by.in the meantime i am inclining to have an affair just to satisfy my needs.sometimes i think that she thinks that i am a sex maniac.we used to have sex quite often but it went from 3 times a week to 2 then now only on saturday nights if she do not fall asleep.when i do make love to her then to there is hardly any response.i am thinking of affair dayin and dayout but which i am trying to avoid.i have the feeling that she is tired of me in bed but assume she is happy with me as a husband out of the bedroom.i even try my best not to refuse any of her wishes which are shariah.please advise.i become so upset that i go quiet and innmy shell.

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Asked on June 17, 2010 12:00 am
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Make 'Sabr'.
Resort to strenghthening methods if necessary.
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Answered on June 17, 2010 12:00 am
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