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Asalaam wa’alaikum.I’ve been married for 13yrs with alot of difficulty.my husband use to be very abusive but i never had the guts to leave him.I have 2 kids,a boy and a girl.my son is 12 but his dad still hits him from baby.I grew to hate my husband.so when he hits me i fight back.i know its wrong but he brings out the worst in me.In 2007 we had a divorce.I told him to give me talaaq.he wrote it 3 times in my presence all at once and gave me.we were separated for 6 months.It was a very difficult time for me,i had no financial support so i had to go back to him.In that time we both committed zinna which i will regret for the rest of my life.i cant forget or forgive him.we never made nikah again when we got back but since we always fight.i hate doing this in front of the kids but i cant control my temper when it comes to him.I’m making so much sin by fighting all the time.sometimes i want to leave him but then how would i support myself and the kids.i hope Allah could forgive me.i deserve my suffering but please help me.what can i do? jazakallah

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Asked on January 31, 2009 12:00 am
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You are steeped in major sin. Zina. Seperate immediatly. Make arrangement for the childrens financial well-being. Appeal if you have no jewellery equal to Nisab for Zakaat funds.
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Answered on January 31, 2009 12:00 am