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ASALAMUALAIKUM Mufti sb, I am in great despair and hope you can help me out. last year one of our family friends contacted my parents to inform there was a family who was looking for a girl for their only son. it dragged on until few months back I met the mother in a wedding. She instantly liked me, and two weeks later the whole family came to meet us formally. the family is very much interested in me but I since the first time I met them, I told my family I don’t want to go ahead with the marraige. My family is being persuasive. In the past when I recieved proposal, I usually had dream or feeling of something being right or wrong. This time there is nothing, except boredom and despair. I do not want to make istikhara as I am afraid of seeing something positive. I would like to know the rights of a girl for marriage, the extent of her consent. Am I doing wrong rejecting the guy because of height and his circumstances? I don’t want to put too much trust of future being very bright.

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Asked on February 3, 2014 10:54 pm
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It is safer to make Istikhaara. You have the final say.
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Answered on February 3, 2014 10:54 pm