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Asalaam Mufti
I have read your answers regarding homosexuality. I accept wholeheartedly that it is harraam and completely against our faith. I have always had desires to the same sex , i have made dua to Allah many times to take these away and put what is hallal in my heart ,but this dua has not been answered. At 23 years old i fear it may never be. I will ( inshalah) forever deny these nafs and would never act on them. I love Allah and his religion and am very puntual with Salah and try very hard to constantly engage in good, listening to lectuers , tafseers and try to make my character like that of Muhammed SAW – i have committed my self to constantly struggle to please Allah.
I fear that i will never be able to fulfil my duty to get married , as i fear not being able to satisfy my wife. Again i have made dua – but it has not been answered. Should i get married anyway and possibly not do my wife justice? Should i not get married and live a selabate life forever (this is not sunnat)?
Mufti Saab – Allah knows i try very hard to be a good muslim and do good – but i feel that all this is all for nothing due to this curse from Allah ? How do i even rationalise it – is it a test from Allah or a curse of Allah or what?
Mufti Saab my whole life revolves around the worhip of Allah and i love Allah and constantly seek His forgiveness and mercy and make dua alot – but i feel totally lost on this issue sometimes to the point that i think Allah created me for Jahanam – which saddens me alot. I dont want to anger Allah and have accepted that i ma
y have to deny my self “satisfaction” or even be lonely my entire life – and am prepared to go through such hardship if Allah does not change my condition, in order to not anger Allah
Mufti Saab please advise me.
Jazakalah

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Asked on November 16, 2012 12:08 pm
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You should get married. Never get despondent of the Mercy of Allaah. Be confident in the natural system of Allaah. Think why Allaah has created the opposite gender. Allaah is what you think of Him. He is all Merciful, Forgiving.
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Answered on November 16, 2012 12:08 pm
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Permissible, however kindly consult other Muftis as well.
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