. my husband and i have not had intercourse in over six weeks. i don’t know what to do because when ever i ask him if he has a problem he says no and that we will have intercourse that night but he always finds some excuse to get out of it. he is either too tired or he is not feeling well. i feel as though it is not fair. when i try to touch him in the night, he grunts and turns away from me. i am getting so tired of his behavior. i do ask him if it is tension from work but he says no. i feel really neglected.