I have dreams almost every night. I am a married.
I notice however that for the past couple of months, I often have a dream in which a guy that I used to like in college is in my dream and we chat and my feeling in the dream is that I like the guy and I can sense he likes me but he is married.
At college, we were just friends and at a point he indicated to me that he liked me but we never had a relationship because his mother was against the idea because of our different languages and my parents were against the idea because they felt that he was not good looking enough for me.
I know that it is completely wrong to have any relationship before marriage and I was completely upfront with my husband at the time that we met by telling him that I did like this guy but never had a relationship with him.
A couple of years later I met this guy again after I was proposed to my husband but not married. He was married with children and I became very good friends with his wife so much so that we are in and out of each other’s houses. The issue of us liking each other many many years back did not even arise as it it never happened since I met him and his family again.
I have no feelings at all for this guy. In fact, I sometimes ask myself what I ever saw in him back in college but I cannot understand why he is constantly in my dreams.
Please let me know what you think?