Assalaamu alaikum wa rahmatullah
A while back, I started speaking to a guy for the purpose of marriage. I immediately prayed Istikharah and had a positive feeling. Within 2 weeks we both felt we were right for each other. However, his mother didn’t approve of me since I’m a few years older than him. She told him to choose between her or me. I thought it was over, but he wanted us to continue talking, said he’d try to get his mother to change her mind. I wasn’t sure. I prayed Istikharah again, to determine if I should continue getting to know him (we only spoke on the phone) and all my doubts disappeared. One Friday while praying salaah I felt completely at ease, felt it was better to continue. However, a few months later, it ended, since his mother absolutely refused to accept me.
Khair Insha Allah.
I then had a dream (this was about 15 months ago. I rarely remember dreams but the details of this dream remain clear)I dreamt that he passed away, and his mayyit was at my family home. His parents entered the house and I told my mum, “It seems his mother has accepted it now.” And my mum said, “Yes, she’s okay with it.” I walked out of the kitchen, and I saw members of my mum’s family (my aunts, uncles and cousins) dressed as though attending a wedding. We smiled and greeted, and then I was back in the kitchen, sobbing. The dream ended.
He’s now been in a relationship with a girl my age for 9 months.
What does my dream signify? Could it indicate he’ll marry this girl (or someone older) and his mother will allow it?
Jazakallahu kullu khair