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As salaam mu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wabarakatahu. Before my husband made nikkah to me he read Istikaraa. The answers were he must not marry me. He then made mashura and told me that mashura supercedes Istikaraa. I came into the nikkah with 2 children who he promised will love and treat as his own. Needless to say he has abused them physically, mentally and emotionally. He even was breaking family ties by telling my one child that I don’t love him and that he is non existent in my life. He has been using vulgar languages everyday in his speech. He has not supported me financially. He lived in my house, drove my car, I bought him clothes and did everything for him. He made demands on me regarding his choice of food which was expensive and put me out of pocket. He was reckless with my vehicle causing financial burdens on me to repair vehicle. He bullied me all the time. Everything was just about him. He raised is hands for me and told my Son that I am a kaafir. I went through emotional, financial, mental and even sexual abuse. I now said enough is enough. I need a divorce as my children and I cannot continue living under these circumstances. He refuse to give the divorce. Naturally he has everything found for him and is in his comfort zone. My question is then based on him not giving the talaaq and I have reports etc as proof of his behaviour and my life and that of the children is endangered. What can the ruling be? Can Mufti Elias please contact me to get more details and assist me. I do not want any mediation. I want to be out of this nikkah. Jazakallah Khair. As salaam mu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wabarakatahu

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Asked on January 27, 2017 8:52 am
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Kindly go to your local Jamiat and present your case. I do not handle social cases any longer.

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Answered on February 9, 2017 12:24 pm
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