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Assalamualaikum!

Mufti i recently met a boy we decided we wanted to get married! We both read our istikhaara it came positive. At first his family was ok with it now his mom is not happy! She met me but made no attempt at all to even speak to me! They have no reason for disliking me they come up with silly reasons. I understand it is difficult for his mom and sister as they might feel insecure as he is the only son his dad passed away but i am willing to move in with his family take care of them! We honestly don’t know what to do! There isn’t anyone that can speak on our behalf and this is taking a huge toll on us! His mom is going to such an extreme extent as to use emotional blackmail on him! I am in desperate need of help because now his talking about gettin married secretly and even saying if his mom wants to move out because his marrying me she should! I can’t allow that as we will be answerable but we really want to be together. Is there a dua i can read to soften his mommy’s heart? What else can i do? I am suffering deep depression at the moment! I’ve had a very bad past, parents divorced etc, i don’t think im strong enough to take this as well! Make me maaf i know our type of relationship is haraam and that i shouldn’t even be asking this but i have hope that Allah will forgive me as my intentions are pure! Please remember us in ur duas

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Asked on January 25, 2010 12:00 am
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Make Istigfaar for the wrong relationship. Read 'Hasbunallaah wa ni mal wakeel wa ni mal moula wa ni man naseer'. Ask an elder Mahraam of yours to intervene.
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Answered on January 25, 2010 12:00 am