Being overburdened with unneccesary problems

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Life is currently throwing me many problems and obstacles that I need to resolve, some personal and some from my immediate family ,I am trying to sort things out but it isnt easy ,however I have a cousin who makes sure that I am made aware of all/any issues/problems my father or brothers cause despite me being overburdened with many problems which he is well aware of , its as if he wants to increase the pressure on me some more that’s how it feels ,when instead he can withhold it from me and deal with it as a ”muslim brother” ,it will makes things easier for me but instead its the opposite,I am infuriated by this behavior as his own father has asked me for a financial favor which I have assisted him without his knowledge but only so I may gain some rewards but this is how he behaves towards me with a arrogant tone of voice … ?I cant control my father and brothers if they seek his help now and than ,what should I do as I feel I am going to lose my temper very soon and tell him a mouthful which he wont appreciate and that will end the family tie

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Asked on June 2, 2013 6:40 pm
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Allaah will reward you with your good deeds.
Ignore others. Avoid them. Regard it as Satanic in nature. Do not be provoked. But when time is ripe in a cool and calm manner, explain the real situation.

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Answered on June 2, 2013 6:40 pm