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Aslaamualaikum
Jazakallah for the answer to Question ID: 27229 (copied and pasted below)
Just need a clarification. Does it mean the husband should not ask and should ignore everything he suspects and thinks of what his wife’s intentions were when she did and verbally said the things mentioned in question ID 27229(below), and his marriage is intact?

jazakallah

**previous question answered,copied&pasted below**
Question ID: 27229
Aslaamualaikum
If a woman looks at her husband’s beard or another man’s beard and makes a cringing/disgust/embarrassment look on her face and also verbally says:.’it doesn’t look nice or you look old, or you look weird or it doesn’t suit you or shave your beard or ‘oh my godyou’ve grown your beard again, what have you done to yourself and it doesn’t look nice so shave it or she  verbally says ‘don’t keep a beard.’

The husband of the woman is concerned about her intentions towards the beard when she did the cringing/disgust/embarrassment look and any of the above and verbally said the above, and is worried and suspects and thinks that she might have committed kufr and has lost her imaan by doing and verbally saying the above.

So should the husband ask the wife/woman if she had disrespect for the beard/sunnah at the time of doing or verbally saying any of the above OR should the husband ask the wife/woman if she had intention to mock the beard and sunnah when she did the above and verbally said the above OR should the husband ask if the wife had regarded men keeping beards (sunnah) as something trivial and unimportant when she did and verbally said the above.
OR should the husband ignore what he suspects and thinks of what his wife’s intentions were when she did and verbally said the any of the above and continue with marriage and life?
Jazkalla

AsalaamuAlaikum
السَّلاَمُ عَلَيْكُمْ وَرَحْمَةُاللهِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ
Husband should ignore.
Mocking, jeering or looking down on the Sunnat, renders one out of the fold of Islaam.

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Asked on October 25, 2016 2:06 pm
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AsalaamuAlaikum
السَّلاَمُ عَلَيْكُمْ وَرَحْمَةُاللهِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ

1.) Yes.
2.) Yes.

وَعَلَيْكُمُ السَّلَام وَرَحْمَةُ اللَّهِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ وَمَغْفِرَتُهُ
Was-Salaams
Mufti Elias
http://www.alislam.co.za

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Answered on November 7, 2016 5:17 pm