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Is it such a crime to be single in your 30s livng with parents all married brothers tell my parents to kick me out coz I am a problem even I don’t talk to them they have problem with my existence and then my parents behave indifferently with me and my mum starts to become nasty and spew horrible words and accusations on me really this is what I deserve as I’m not married and still living here
What does this mean I should move out live on my own
I should bear with it until I can bear no more
This treatment of my mums is acceptable? she tells me until I don’t change nothing will
What can I change sweep the floor my brothers walk on I have even apologised not even being at fault but still not enough how can people behave like this and take you to court in life day in day out
I fail to understand how mothers especially Pakistani have daughters they treat them like 2nd class citizen doesn’t matter how educated and how better you are but hey who’s to say who is better God knows if I was ever any better would I be humiliated every other day for existing yes I made some errors sometimes I learn faster than other but honestly mufti I’m end of my tether when is Allah going to provide me with relief
I think he loves to see me alone and cry and that’s ok I don’t mind anymore but I can’t bear this humiliation and these accusations anymore. I’m a loner i have no friends I cry I can’t hold any relationships I won’t get married I’m not deserving really this and more I have to hear from my own brothers and sisters and to top it off I don’t and can’t share how I feel much when I do it is smashed in my face later what does one do
This is not complaint rather seeking for advice. God has bestowed a lot on me I am very grateful but I need some direction from the pious and learned

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Asked on June 15, 2016 12:20 am
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Answered on July 13, 2016 5:42 pm
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Their behaviour towards you is totally un-Islaamic. please forward us your email address we will forward a booklet ‘Seeking a pious spouse’ to you.
Choose the formulation of your choice. You will get a suitable spouse soon.
You will and are being rewarded for your ‘Sabr’. Always look at the positive side.
Look at the suffering of the Muslims through the world.

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Answered on June 18, 2016 10:56 pm