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As salam u alaikum. When ever i sleep i gets bitten by snakes, dogs, tiger. Every day a girl with different faces comes in my dreams and make me napak. I read duas n all before sleeping but this all things happens to me. I have become very weak. My mind also doesnt work, i feel like my mind is blocked and if i try to think even with this problems, i feel a big burden in my head. My body also feels very heavy and i suffers pains in different parts of body. What is the problem with me. I m suffering this from many years. Pls help me. Allah hafiz.

Answer

See a reliable 'Aamil' in your area. Read Surah Baqarah aloud in your house for 40 days. Insha Allaah problem will get solved

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Can I deposit sperm into a bank if I have to undergo chemotherapy soon?

Answer

No

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asalaamwualaikum is it permissible to shave on your legs and feet for men? where should a man start shaving from , from the navel or lower? jazakallah

Answer

1) Yes
2) From navel

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Question #6855 – 10/08/2011 AUGUST 21, 2011 Question aww mufti saab.1. do men have to shave their back private parts(anus)2.if yes,A)which are exactly B)i find it very difficult it to do so -what must i do. Answer 1) Yes 2a) Hair around the area where stool comes out. 2b) Shave as much as possible. And Allah Knows Best Mufti Elias (May Allah Protect him) Category:Male Matters -------------------------------------------------------------- muhtarm mufti sahib please provide refference according to my knowledge the fuqahaa say it is not necessary to shave that area jazakallah wassalaam muhammad yusuf

Answer

1) Yes

2 A/b) As much as humanly possible.

Then follow your research, we are stating for hygiene purposes.

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Salaams As per Question # 6887, where will i find "Gift for a Bride Gift from a Groom on the site?

Answer

Uner publications.

http://www.alislam.co.za/cms/publications/gift-to-the-groom/

http://www.alislam.co.za/cms/publications/gift-to-the-groom-summary/

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aww mufti saab.1. do men have to shave their back private parts(anus)2.if yes,A)which are exactly B)i find it very difficult it to do so -what must i do.

Answer

1) Yes

2a) Hair around the area where stool comes out.

2b) Shave as much as possible.

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As salaam mu alaykum respected Mufti, Your assistance if possible will be highly appreciated. Every time I make dua that I stop watching pornographic material and stop masturbation, I will do the same deed that I made dua not to do. It is not a regular occurence as if I do the same sin daily. It has been happening also now with that which I have to do, I did not read salah daily and I started reading my 5 times salah I had made dua to stay on the straighter path and during that week i missed more salah than the previous week and found extremely difficult to read the qadah. I had stopped masturbation for two months, I avoided every hint of moving towards the evil habit. When i made dua that I stay this way, within a week of making the dua I had found the need to do the same evil deed. I have found that if I do not make dua for abstinece of an evil deed or dua for keeping up a required field of life, it is alot easier to keep doing it. As soon as I make a dua to keep it up, I either stop or perform the same evil sin that I had previously abstained from. I am starting to doubt my duas as I am also a student and exams are fast approaching, now that I make dua for my exams to be easy and for me to study I am more stressed than ever and the studying is just not working. I have been practicing the act of masturbation for a time a long time I am aware of its consequences both islamically and on my health. I have been going through the above procedure for variable lengths of time from a few days up till 2 months as I explained, It has been almost 3 years since I have been having this problem. I initially understood it and took it merely as a test I am failing every time but what I have now realised when ever i make dua I masturbate. I now avoid making dua for other people and myself and only make the arabic dua that is simply described as asking Allah for alll the duas Nabi Muhammad SAW asked for. Please could you tell me what is a solution to this, and, if any measures I have taken for it are correct. I do not have the courage to approach a mufti in person and, discuss my personal problems, also circumstances surrounding my studies does not let me do that, even if I had the courage to do so. Wa Alaykumus Salaam wa rah ma tullahi wa barakatu.

Answer

Have full faith in the acceptance of Duaas. Increase Dua making. Be in the state of Wudhu all the time. Be regular with Salaat with Jamaat. Avoid bad company. Avoid looking at bad/evil things.

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Mufti Elias (May Allah Protect him)

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Is it permissible to masterbate?

Answer

No

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Assalam-u-aliakum Muftisap, 1)After I urinate ther is a clear liquid discharge that comes out. What discharge is this ? 2)After making wudhu if there is a discharge is the wudhu broken? 3)If one"s satar is exposed during making of wudhu , does this nullify the wudhu? 4)Is there any specific medication for waek erection/pre-mature ejaculation? Jazakallah

Answer

1) This is not pure
2) Yes
3) No
4) Ask the Hakim o medical practitioner.

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As Salaamu alaykum respected mufti, Please excuse the explicit content of my questions. I had a discussion with a friend at school regarding sins of the sexual nature. I am aware that no sin is better or worse than the other but the specificity of the sin's punishment is important as we had disagreed on many points. This was all said with regards to a single man that is not married. 1. Is the punishment for performing either full intercourse (vaginal) with a women, and, just having a sexual encounter with the women( not vaginal or anal) but leading to ejaculation due to the sexual stimulation of the women, the same? If not what is the respective punishments? 2. Drinking alcohol is said to carry the forty day period as well as a hadith if I remember correctly that any person who drinks even a little amount of alcohol will be prevented from entering Jannah for a set amount of time until he repents and Allah (swt) forgives him, please correct me if I am wrong. With this in mind, what is the sin for performing full intercourse(vaginal) with a women, and, consuming alcohol in any amount? 3. My friend viewed alcohol as worse as it carries the forty day penalty in which the offender is bound to ask for forgiveness as his prayers and duas will not be accepted as compared to intercourse which does not carry the forty day penalty. Is this correct? 4. As is with drinking mentioned in number 2. with the exception being, not intercourse(vaginal nor anal) but sexual stimulation performed by the women leading to ejaculation. I understand all of the above are haraam and totally forbidden in islam if out of wedlock and alcohol totally forbidden, but we require answers with the respective punishments so that we can understand Islam better. JazakAllah.

Answer

1) Both are major sins.
2) Both major sins. I have not heard of the little amount of consumption.
3) No
4) Major sins bring the wrath, anger and displeasure of Allaah.

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Category:Male Matters